Three-Day Betrayal Recovery Intensive
for Couples
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“I felt very supported by Dr. Hollenbeck that she was able to make my spouse and I feel comfortable. I felt heard and understood in a way that I had not experienced with other therapists that we have worked with. The Three-Day Intensive experience was a positive step for healing our marriage. My spouse was very focused and engaged and I know we learned tools that have helped us communicate with each other more honestly. We now have a detailed plan to repair and move forward with our marriage we are both committed to following the plan. The Three-Day Intensive experience allowed me to have a clearer understanding of what had occurred during my spouse’s affair and his remorse for having the affair. This allowed me to process my fear and feelings.”
Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), an APSAT Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS), a Certified Disclosure Guide, a Certified Couples Betrayal Recovery Therapist (CCBRT), trained in the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model (ERCEM), trained in Gottman Couples Therapy, and is a Certified Hope & Freedom Practitioner (CHFP). She offers a Three-Day Intensive Program for Couples who are facing the overwhelming challenges associated with relationship betrayal. A betrayal may consist of an affair, chronic affairs, sex addiction, compulsive problematic sexual behaviors, micro-cheating, porn addiction, or emotional affairs. During this Intensive, couples are able to experience the benefits of six months of therapy in a Three-Day period.
Lies, confusion, betrayal, shame, lack of intimacy, feeling hopeless…these are just a few of
the devastating aspects of a relationship impacted by Relational Betrayal. The betraying spouse lives a secret life of shame, betrayal, and lies. The betrayed partner is traumatized and experiences symptoms of PTSD, broken relational attachment, and complex anger and grief. She or he feels blindsided, betrayed, confused, angry, and fearful.
What to expect during the Three Day Intensive:
*Develop a Clear Written Recovery Plan
*Full Therapeutic Disclosure
*Lie Detector Exam
*Impact Statement
*Restitution Letter
*Several Other Exercises and Resources
A Few Requirements to Consider:
*You will be required to stay in a Hotel whether you are a local resident or coming in from out of town
*The cost is $5700.00 plus travel, hotel, food, etc.
*You will be expected to abstain from all alcohol and non prescriptions drug use 30 days prior and during the Intensive.
*You will be expected to give your full focus on the Intensive and asked to abstain from all media and work during the Intensive.
*You will need to have a therapist you are currently working with and will continue to work with after the Intensive.
Dr. Hollenbeck’s Intensive provides therapy that honors and respects the individual, as well as the couple, with a caring, nonjudgmental, and confidential approach in a Three-Day Intensive Therapeutic Setting.
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As a Certified Hope & Freedom Practitioner, I believe that any betrayal including sex addiction does not have to bring an end to marriage. If there is a willingness on the part of both partners to give themselves wholeheartedly to the recovery
process, I believe that most marriages can not only survive, but can thrive in recovery. This intensive treatment process is different from some others in that a stated goal of our process is to strengthen the marriage relationship with a foundation for recovery to move forward in the healing process.
Three-Day Intensives are not for everyone. Intensives are not a three-day cure. There is no such thing. They are designed to be three days of hard work that will help you get to the root of the betrayal, strip away barriers to recovery, and put your life and relationship on the road to recovery. These three days of concentrated and demanding work address issues that may otherwise take six months or more of therapy for equivalent results.
Listen to Dr. Hollenbeck discuss the Partner Impact Statement with Carol the Coach
This program is very rigorous. In fact, it may be the most rigorous short-term treatment program of its kind. I are very selective in accepting couples into this program because we want to make sure a Three-Day Intensive is the appropriate treatment choice.
If you are looking for an easy fix to a problem that you have developed over many years, this program is not for you. I work only with highly motivated couples who are ready to do whatever is necessary to put an end to all acting out behaviors once-and-for-all and engage in the difficult but rewarding process of rebuilding their relationship.

